An
Interview with
Lucille Reynolds
Witches
Unite & the Correllian Tradition
Every
single day (not mornings - I am not a morning person),
I say to myself, “oh I am so happy and blessed”.
I enjoy my family, my job, my friends, my spiritual
path and my spiritual family. This may sound so
clichéd to some, but it is true of how I
feel. I feel so blessed because I have the support
of my family, husband and kids.
Growing
up with my parents was tough. My parents are Christians.
My mother is a Reverend in the Anglican church.
I have always been a Pagan. have never been a Christian,
it just never felt right. I remember rebelling against
Bible study as far back as my first year of school.
I believe in the power of the Universe. I told them
that. I firmly believed it and nobody was going
to change my mind. I explained that I could see
the sun, the moon and the stars. I could feel the
power in the Universe. I could not see or feel the
Christian God and his son Jesus.
My
mother had to remove me from my first school after
the first term. The nuns were horrified with my
way of thinking. My mother was so embarrassed. She
tried everything in her power to get me to believe
and worship her Christian God. I got endless visits
from priests and psychologists etc. My cousins were
not allowed to be with me because my aunt believed
I was the devil of the new generation.
When
I was about 12 years old, my mother the Reverend
decided that if I would not go to Sunday school,
she would bring the Sunday school class to our house.
We lived two houses away from the church. So every
Sunday, the Sunday school kids and teachers would
arrive at my house for lessons. I would either lock
myself up in my room or argue my rights as a Pagan
every Sunday.
As a child, my relationship with my parents was
very strained and I truly believed that they did
not like me. I was sent away to boarding school,
which I loved. One off- weekend just before I was
due to be driven back to boarding school, I sat
my mother down and told her that I wanted and needed
a letter from her stating that I could be excused
from Religious Instruction at school. She just looked
at me and never said a word. That evening, traveling
back to boarding school I was ignored. While unpacking
my cases, I found a letter written in her hand writing.
I slowly opened it, she had written the letter I
requested. I was so overwhelmed, I cried.
From
that day onwards, I had a new respect for my mother.
She finally accepted that Christianity is not my
path. From that day onwards, our mother / daughter
relationship grew.
I
started my own Pagan movement in boarding school.
Students were rebelling against religious instruction
which later got me expelled. That and the fact that
I also started a ‘mice epidemic’ at
boarding school.
Through
the years, my mother did extensive research into
Paganism and Witchcraft. I now have her blessings
and my Christian Reverend mother even collects Witchy
things for me, educates the rest of the family and
other priests alike. The pain and the fight for
my spiritual path through my childhood and school
years have been worth the freedom I am enjoying
as an adult.
I
would describe myself as a Wiccan. A Pagan is what
I have always been and a Wiccan is what I have become.
After being a solitary Pagan my whole life, I realized
that I have an overwhelming interest and passion
for Wicca and Witchcraft. I gravitate towards Wicca
because I love ritual, robes, and the groups of
people and "toys" of the craft. I did
research over the net and I read books. I kept asking
myself; where are these people? Where do I find
them?
My
will and intent was to connect with like minded
people. Slowly but surely, I started meeting more
and more Pagans, Witches and Wiccans. I realize
that I never found any of them, they found me. "They"
came to me and invited me to walk this path with
them. I am forever grateful. I truly believe that
we cross each others paths for a reason.
Some
people are chariots who lead us to others and some
people teach us valuable lessons which make us stronger
and wiser. Some of these lessons manifest through
conflict and struggle. This path is not for sissies.
Each day is a lesson and each lesson has a reason.
My
husband is a wonderful man who believes in the freedom
of religion. He is a Christian but does not attend
church. He loves to sit and chat amongst the Wiccan's
and although it is not his path, he is a great supporter.
I
have two daughters and a foster son. They have been
educated and live the ways of both religions. An
example at meal time, "Thank you for the food
we are about to receive" - (Christian) then
thanking the animal for its sacrifice - (Pagan.)
I trust that one day they will choose the path that
suits their needs as they will be able to make an
unbiased decision. Many Christians have a serious
problem with me enjoying and celebrating the Christian
Christmas. I have been called a hypocrite. I believe
that if someone invites me to be part of a special
day in their life, it is an honour. My family and
friends know I am not a Christian, but they also
know that I will join in the celebration out of
respect and love for them. I, in turn, feel greatly
honoured when people from other paths join in the
fun and celebrate our Sabbats and Esbats; our "special"
days and events like Freedom day.
I
have never denied my spiritual path. Socially, I
wear my pentagram proudly. I want people to ask
me about it because I want to educate them. I would
never try to convert anyone because I believe this
is a tough path and not suitable for the faint -
hearted. Furthermore, as most of us have discovered,
the Pagan/ Wiccan path found us.
People
that I have met through various esoteric courses
have become my spiritual family. Most of my spiritual
family, I met on the very first Wicca course. We
are still all together barring one and we have all
remained good friends. Unity is very important to
me. I get very attached to my friends and Spiritual
family.
My
career entails inter-personal contact with different
denominations and people from all walks of life
and religions. My path has never been questioned
or discussed so I have never had to deal with conflict
in the work place. If the topic of religion comes
up and I am asked, I proudly explain my path. I
say "explain" because it is the only way
to educate the public. My spiritual path is not
contradictory to the work I do; therefore it does
not pose a problem in my career.
The
first Wicca course I attended made the biggest impact
on my spiritual path as I learnt the value of friendship.
Looking back then, I would never have thought that
the students (barring one who is no longer a Pagan)
would become my spiritual family, my support and
my friends. We were all so different, from different
walks of life and age groups. Years later and still
all together, that inspires me, especially when
I see how everyone has grown spiritually. I often
think back on how little we all knew about the path
then compared to what we know and have achieved
today.
After
the first course, I moved forward in search of further
studies and groups. I came across a group which
represented the Correllian Tradition. I contacted
the students from the first course and with great
excitement; I explained that I had found a mentor.
A mentor crazy and brave enough to take on a whole
group of students! We all eagerly got started and
involved with studying the Correllian 1st degree.
The Correllian 1st degree was the best and most
valuable year of study. I was impressed with the
mentor, the study material and the Correllian structure.
More valuable friendships were made and so the group
was increasing in numbers and strength.
After
the first year of Correllian 1st degree, our mentor
sadly left the group as she needed her own time
for personal growth. We were devastated. The thought
of all the learning and rituals coming to an end
and the friendships possibly falling apart, everyone
going there own way, completely traumatized me.
Again,
I started the great search for a new mentor. All
we wanted was to continue our studies for Correllian
2nd degree. We were a big group and we all wanted
to stay together as a group. The only Correllian
mentor available at the time was solitary. After
endless meetings, research, correspondence and dead
ends, I came to the conclusion that we would have
to represent ourselves. I believe things happen
for a reason and later the reason became very clear
to me. The research connected us with many Pagans,
Mentors and group leaders' world wide.
We
also met up with many solitary Pagan's and Pagans
from other traditions that joined our group. They
attended our workshops, became regulars and very
much part of our Spiritual space. We had a few problems.
We were a Correllian 1st degree group, with no mentor,
no name, no 2nd degree study material because our
Witch School site was not upgraded and then, we
were wondering if we could remain Correllian if
we had a new group of members from various traditions?
One night over a couple of drinks, (not shooters)
and much brain storming, Gail and I decided to call
ourselves Witches Unite. Why? Because, we belonged
to nobody, our group was made up of many Pagans/
Witches from different traditions, but all under
one belief system - Paganism/ Wiccan.
So,
"Witches Unite" was born. We had a group
dedication and a party. We concentrated on Rituals
and workshops. We invited the public and had wonderful
turnouts. We soon realized that the people coming
our way and joining our group had so much to offer
in the form of divination, learning and healing.
The other wonderful and positive factor was that
through all the correspondence and research, we
got connected and acquainted with Davron from Astral
Light USA. He responded to one of my many cries
for help. He invited us to be registered as Outer
Court members of The Temple of Astral Light. Wow!!
There were two conditions attached to this arrangement,
the first was that the whole group had to redo the
Correllian 1st degree syllabus because our marks
were not updated on Witch School and our mentor
was not traceable. Secondly we needed a Group Leader
who would be prepared to study Mentorship and Clergy.
We voted for a leader at the next meeting and I
was nominated by the group as the group leader.
I was so honored! It has been hectic, as I needed
to study and write each 2nd degree lesson on Witch
School before I mentored the rest of the group.
I knew that the task ahead would be difficult but
rewarding. Davron's help and guidance was invaluable.
The Correllian structure for learning and opportunities
are endless.
"Witches
Unite" has grown in members. We have 1st and
2nd degree students. We put a lot of time into our
studies, workshops and Spirituality. To bring in
the good old balance as well, we have a lot of parties.
It is a nice time for new members to get to know
us on a social level. We continuously invite other
Traditions and groups to take part in activities
and socials. We have been involved in many community
projects, interviews, public rituals and articles.
Our goal is to educate the public in Paganism /
Wicca. We have plenty of exciting community events
happening but all these events seem to take place
at the same time. From now until March 2005 our
calendar for community work is hectic.
We,
the members of "Witches Unite" are always
looking for ways to improve relationships between
Pagan groups, therefore we are always prepared to
plan/ assist or participate in events. It seems
very peaceful at the moment. Relationships between
traditions, leaders and mentors are improving. It
feels really great to be able to phone a leader
of another group and ask for advice if necessary.
The support from all the other groups especially
Arias (Temple Head of the House of Ouroborus) has
been phenomenal. Raene has re-entered our lives
and she supports us in workings and Rituals. Although
she is not a member of Witches Unite, we will always
consider her to be part of our Spiritual family.
Every
single person, mentors, leaders, Witches, Wiccan's
and Pagans who has entered my life and the lives
of all the members and students of Witches Unite
have provided us with great life lessons and growth.
Thank You.
Contact the Reverend Lucille
Witches
Unite